Lies! The power of the words

XxHave you ever lied about something? Or you been lied to before?

 I am guilt of it I have told many lies before and I know the efffects that it can cause in you and on people.

Different scenarios and different lies:
*You said that you would do something but you don't do it when you had too. Lie!
* You make up things to get out of trouble. Lie
*You say that you have done something, knowing that you will do it later. Lie
* You hide the truth instead of expressing it. Lie
* Do you know when people do things that really hurt you and when the ask you were you offended or something you go "not really". Lie
There are many others and I am sure that you have found yourself in those situations before, I have and it's doesn't really looks like a lie but if you see the results of this attitudes you will see how it has affected you!
By not honering your words people will not trust you with big things, by not saying how you really felt others will continuing doing the same things to you and so on.

                              %%%%%%%%%%% Reasons for lying:%%%%%%%%%%%%
* fear of others reactions
* you want to get away with things
* fear of the consequences of your actions
* not knowing how to express yourself
* lack of character

         The bottom line is this, if you know that you do this things you have to find the root of it and over came it, and you will see how it will make you s better person, you won't have to lie to cover another lie, you will be free to say what you want and be comfortable with yourself.
Others may not like this new you but remember that when you assume your position you are solving your problems.
I meditated in this verse to day and it only made sense now.
Joao8:10 11

  Jesus straightened up and asked her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?"No one, sir," she said. "Then neither do I condemn you," Jesus declared. "Go now and leave your life of sin."

Complexes Vs Me

                                                  Complexes 

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Almost every women has had complexes about themselves before, either because you are too big or too small, my nose is fat, I think my legs are too long, I don't like my hair and many other things. 

Have you noticed that Every Girl does that!?

       The media has designed how women should look in the outside but forgotten to show what really happens behind the sines, and it's not always pretty, I see how this has affected many including me. I have learned to love myself for lots of reason:

** One of the reason was that God made me and everything he makes it's beautiful so I am Beautiful.

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** I am unique and no matter how much I try to look like someone else I will never be that someone 

**The other reason it's that I can't change my outside apperience   or even if I do, if I don't fix the real problem every time I would in the mirror I would still see the old me. Let's be honest we all have parts of our body that we don't like, I really don't like my noise I think it's too big but it's enough for my face and now I learned I new make up that makes it very nice and I am loving it.

 

The other thing that I get commentated a lot it's my shape. Or you are too big for your edge, I think you need to lose weight, people like to put they responsibilities  of losing weight on others because they are not happy with themselves, if you are big or small who cares? Embrace what you have, they are people that like to have curves and there is nothing wrong with that, as long as you rock it "Classy" if you know that I mean ;) and others like to be small we have to respect it, as long as you are not putting your health at risk why not have your on identity!?

Insecurity will always be part of you for as long as you allow it to be, learn to love yourself,find the root of your insecurities and change from inside out and learning to like yourself will be a consequence of your inner change, it will not happen over night you will need to persevere in order for you to see the changes. 

        Remember the more you love yourself the more others will love you

So careless or loving?

Are you careless with your tithe or you are having the reverence needed?

There are many things that cames to us so mechanically in life, such as: bath, eating, sleeping, speak and many other things, you don't usually have to check it, it just happens because your head tells you to do it because it  is part of the human nature, but we can't relay on this, normal  even a computer needs to be checked in order not to catch virus, check the memory if it's not too full and so on, this is how we have  to be with our spiritual life, we have to constantly be on the alert button in order for us not to make mistakes,or just relay on our brain to do it all on it's own.

I am so used to tithe everything that cames to my hand that my brain stared to it on it's own, I didn't needed to be riminded about it because it became mechanic for me, but with something that your life depends on, we can't be mechanic about we have to check all the time, am I doing it properly? Am I having the reverence with my tithe the way I need it too? Or just doing it anyhow? When I was constantly doing this I had no problem, recently because of lack of fear I didn't take my tithe simply because I thought I will replace it after( I was not meant to spend it as I was given it for my exam) because I didn't analyses the situation with reverence I made this No No mistake, I have fixed myself and will never do it again. It happened so fast and I felt so strange, every moment I was praying it came to me, but I was insisting in I will replaced it but God didn't allow me to be in darkness for to long, I was asking why I was feeling so strange and God showed me the No No, it made me so mad  I wasted no time and went on my knee and asked God to have mersy.

What I want to recall you mind in this example  because it was not my intention to not give back to God what belongs to him, but I first didn't took time to think or even listen to God when she said take the tithe out, but I relay on your brain only. So check how you given you tithe

*how are u doing it
*how much reverence you are using to give your tithe?
* do you do it because you want to obey or it became mechanic for you?
*when you are tKimg your tithe are you taking your time to count it properly?
* are you been the tithe that you are giving?


Ask God ways for you to make special for him and in how to take care of your tithe envelop.

         If you are like I was relaying only in my brain and not having that exatra caring with it, than change it, ask  God  for forgiveness and change your ways don't touch what is Holy.


This was my experience and I want you to share yours with me

Are you careless with your tithe or you are having the reverence needed?

There are many things that cames to us so mechanically in life, such as: bath, eating, sleeping, speak and many other things, you don't usually have to check it, it just happens because your head tells you to do it because it  is part of the human nature, but we can't relay on this, normal  even a computer needs to be checked in order not to catch virus, check the memory if it's not too full and so on, this is how we have  to be with our spiritual life, we have to constantly be on the alert button in order for us not to make mistakes,or just relay on our brain to do it all on it's own.

I am so used to tithe everything that cames to my hand that my brain stared to it on it's own, I didn't needed to be riminded about it because it became mechanic for me, but with something that your life depends on, we can't be mechanic about we have to check all the time, am I doing it properly? Am I having the reverence with my tithe the way I need it too? Or just doing it anyhow? When I was constantly doing this I had no problem, recently because of lack of fear I didn't take my tithe simply because I thought I will replace it after( I was not meant to spend it as I was given it for my exam) because I didn't analyses the situation with reverence I made this No No mistake, I have fixed myself and will never do it again. It happened so fast and I felt so strange, every moment I was praying it came to me, but I was insisting in I will replaced it but God didn't allow me to be in darkness for to long, I was asking why I was feeling so strange and God showed me the No No, it made me so mad  I wasted no time and went on my knee and asked God to have mersy.

What I want to recall you mind in this example  because it was not my intention to not give back to God what belongs to him, but I first didn't took time to think or even listen to God when she said take the tithe out, but I relay on your brain only. So check how you given you tithe

*how are u doing it
*how much reverence you are using to give your tithe?
* do you do it because you want to obey or it became mechanic for you?
*when you are tKimg your tithe are you taking your time to count it properly?
* are you been the tithe that you are giving?


Ask God ways for you to make special for him and in how to take care of your tithe envelop.

         If you are like I was relaying only in my brain and not having that exatra caring with it, than change it, ask  God  for forgiveness and change your ways don't touch what is Holy.


This was my experience and I want you to share yours with me

Eu diante Dele

Deus,Deus meu mas uma vez eu entro na Tua presenca para lhe diser que na minha vida eu so foi capaz de faser uma  escolha PERFEITA Que foi Te Servir e viver todos os Dias na Sua presenca.

      Deus,Deus meu eu olho para atrais e tudo que ficou soa lembracas de uma vida dolorosa,foi despresada,abandonada,abusada, e muitos erros, que eu pergunto sera que o senhor iria me aceitar? e muitas outras coisas que me fasem deramar lagrimas,quando eu lembro-me .

Eu me pergunto como o senhor pode me amar tanto? 

Deus,Deus meu o Senhor foi o unico que nao me julgou,nao me despresou,o senhor foi o unico que me intendeu me amou como nunca ninguem si entregou para mim. O senhor si entregou para mim antes mesmo que eu ti conhece se, me ensinou que amor e mas que uma palavra,me encinou a surir,e o Senhor Fez o que ninguem foi capaz de Faser deu me paser de ViVeR, quando eu tou trist o senhor me lembra que para ti eu sou preciosa e que para ti eu tenho valor,gracas a Deus que eu encontrei teus Altares.

    Deus muitos ja ti disseram eu ti amo, contigo vou ate ao fim,mas hoje ja nao estam aqui, quanto a mim senhor, tem misericordia de mim, guarda a minha fe, feicha os teus olhos para os meus pecados, nao me repriende na Tua ira, mostra me o que os outros param de faser por ti para que eu venha faser sem parar o que ti agrada,nao permita que o Barulho do amar venham me confudir, oh Pai nao deixa as ondas minha fe diminuir, guia os meus espacos Senhor eu ti peco.

Eu lutarei, e continuarei a lutar para glorificar,o nome do meu Deus,hoje e tempo de renuciar meu eu,porque por mim alguem morreu, eu tenho que lutar para faser vale tudo o que o senhor passou na Cruz, para ser um bom perfume, Pai nunca tira os teus olhos de mim,porque eu preciso ser oposto do que o mundo e, me ajuda aguardar o meu coracao so para ti, Oh Deus da minha Mocidade ti dou tuda a joventude,usa-me no teu altar como um instrumento de vida, tem paciencia comigo,sou uma pecadora que preciso tanto do teu amor para crescer, tenho muito a mudar mas eu nao consiguirei sozinha, ajuda me oh Deus e nao tira os Teus de mim.

Are you a boring Christian or limited?

I offten get this question from my No-Christian friends when we are having a conversation, they always ask me can you do this the answer it's always no I can't. They asked me why? To be honest at that time I didn't know what to say, but I took on the opportunity to try to explain why can't we do everything and why we need to stop been a boring Christians for no reason at all.

As a Christian we don't do what is right for us but the will of Whom we Serve, what seems right to you it may not be right for Him, to be honest we can do anything we want to do as long as your mind doesn't accuse you and you doesn't go against the commandments.

Examples of few things we can't do: use offensive words,go clubbing,lie,have sex before getting married,dress indecent  Cause comflict among brothers, big mouth and the list goes on.although some "Christian " do all this things above, but are also so many things that we can do like HAVE FUN! The picture that people have in their minds it's this Christians only help others,they are holy, they don't do that they don't do this and blablablaaaa okay we are meant to be like this helping and passing life, bit we also do many things like; enjoy a dance off with friends,go shopping, have dinner, cinema and many things

   There is a group called a Godllywood that was created to help women to have God's character in them, they have different challenges that it's avaloable for you Girls that want to change your ways and he more becautiful in God's eyes. It had it all for you that want to know what you can and can't, we have the no no list which I love,the code of conduct that allows you to be very elegant. Check it out at www.cristianecardoso.com

The moral of this post it's this been a Christian it is not boring when you have God in you, you can do so many things that will help you and others, you can have fun just like others but in a good way, no need of alcohol, drogs, sex and so on,you can go out with your friends and enjoy. Stop been a boring Christian the one that only wears long skirt, everything for you it's amen, alleluia, all this religious
things as if it will take you to heaven, go and explore new things stop limitating yourself and others ,because they may see you as an example and they do what you do, and if you are boring,,,, guess how they will turn up? Boringgggggg.

Don't be a boring Christian because God it's not a boring God.

Sense I am not a boring Christian this was how I enjoyed my Tuesday!