Wednesday, 10 September 2014

Complexes Vs Me


                                                  Complexes 
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Almost every women has had complexes about themselves before, either because you are too big or too small, my nose is fat, I think my legs are too long, I don't like my hair and many other things. 

Have you noticed that Every Girl does that!?

       The media has designed how women should look in the outside but forgotten to show what really happens behind the sines, and it's not always pretty, I see how this has affected many including me. I have learned to love myself for lots of reason:

** One of the reason was that God made me and everything he makes it's beautiful so I am Beautiful.

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** I am unique and no matter how much I try to look like someone else I will never be that someone 

**The other reason it's that I can't change my outside apperience   or even if I do, if I don't fix the real problem every time I would in the mirror I would still see the old me. Let's be honest we all have parts of our body that we don't like, I really don't like my noise I think it's too big but it's enough for my face and now I learned I new make up that makes it very nice and I am loving it.
 
The other thing that I get commentated a lot it's my shape. Or you are too big for your edge, I think you need to lose weight, people like to put they responsibilities  of losing weight on others because they are not happy with themselves, if you are big or small who cares? Embrace what you have, they are people that like to have curves and there is nothing wrong with that, as long as you rock it "Classy" if you know that I mean ;) and others like to be small we have to respect it, as long as you are not putting your health at risk why not have your on identity!?

Insecurity will always be part of you for as long as you allow it to be, learn to love yourself,find the root of your insecurities and change from inside out and learning to like yourself will be a consequence of your inner change, it will not happen over night you will need to persevere in order for you to see the changes. 

        Remember the more you love yourself the more others will love you



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