Proverbs for life

For a period of 40 days in my life I ready every single chapter and verses of the book of proverbs in the bible and it help me to see things in a different way. After finishing the book, a thought came into my head "if you read this book and not educate yourself I guess will never be educated again"

  I lots of time we find ourself making the same mistake over and over again, and we ask ourself why? And the answer its simple we are just not been wise enought to see that doing the same thing over and over again will not give is a different answer and this book of proverbs helped me to see that and I want to share it with you hoping that it may help you too. 

Here is the first chapter and verse: 

 

Proverbs

"1:5 A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels:"

One of the things that can kill a person is not hearing what others have to say, they think they know better than anyone, the opinion matters more,what they think it's better than what others think, they think that they are the only one who have ever been to that situation. Most of the mistakes we make its because we didn't took that extra minute to just listen what others what to say, or to accept others help or advise in how to overcame certain things, and they are so many examples I can give about myself, one of them has happen recently it's silly but if I took that extra minute to think about I wouldn't have burn my ears, I didn't burn it with a hair straightener or a hair dryer but with a Iron, now imagine what was I doing with the iron to burn my ear?....

*A wise man will hear, and will increase learning

This bible serves show that a wise man listens to what others have to say,she/he analyses the situation before making a decision, she/he wants to learn new things and not just stick to what she things it's best. This "wise"person is always looking for ways to became better and how he could increase his knowledge.

*and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels

When you look for wiser ways of making decision you also learn to have a different understanding of things, you see thinks in different way, you will be able to see a way out where others don't see, you able to help others and not just thing about yourself.

Now you may ask me how do I get there? How do I became this type of person? 

The answer it's simple be humble, see why things at times don't work well for you. 

See the way you react when others are trying to help you?

What have you been doing with the advises you take from others?

When you around people do you let them express they opinion and respect them or you always have to be the one with the last word?

I don't know the answer for everything, some of this things I writing to you I am also trying to figure it out, so as I am trying to find out the answers I am also trying to help you so we can all change together.

Take that extra minute and over think about the situation, one action,one word can define lives.

       I am not asking you to be perfect I am just asking you to make a difference. 

                 

  I will be saying this at all my blog post, I am just letting you know!😜😜😜