Tips on how to dress up

Hello girls today me and my friend Gloria were talking about how dressing up descretely is important.

The way we dress up speaks a lot about youself, you either are comfortable with yourself or you are trying to prove a point to your girl friends! Sad right?

* Gloria

Today for the first time since the start of the year I really understood what it mean to be confident in myself, specifically in regards to clothing. You've probably heard many times from you mum, your aunt, your pastor's wife or even your friends that you should dress more secretly (aka cover up!) but none of this really changed your mind about wearing your tight mini skirts, or your plunging tops exposing all your goodies, nor did it stop you from showing off your belly. But I'm not going to tell you what not to wear, you can figure this out once you've read the rest of what I'm going to share.

I spoke to a guy today and he definitely agreed that your exposing outfits would attract him and all his mates, and in fact it would make you the centre of their attention because they would want to persue you for your "hotness", but only that! Never would they want to introduce you to their parents or family becaus nothing serious can come out of a sold out item. After all, a vulgar woman is like a cheap piece of clothing on a shop display window, every one looks at it, tries it, and may even take pictures with it but no one ever buys it because it's no good! Now I'm sure none of us want to be used. How many times have we heard "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?!" This goes the same with the fact that when we don't value ourselves enough to dress descretely, then no one will see the importance in investing into getting to know you when you're already selling yourself short.

So maybe it's the case that you're trying to keep up with the trends or show off to your friends, you should always remember some types of attention is better than no attention at all. For the first time I appreciated the fact that I am beautiful and confident in clothes that call the right attention without having to be indiscreet. For the first time I appreciated the fact that I am setting a good example and that I can be fashionable while doing it. 

Here are some tips on how to dress appropriately in different occasions.

PS. Forgive me for the use of harsh words.